Hi. You might be part of the Effective Altruism community, or the Rationalist community, or the Esperanto-speaking community or even my workplace. Or not, maybe you come from somewhere completely unrelated. Welcome to you!

I visualize dating as mostly a filtering quest. So, pardon the very rough, straight to the point aspect of this doc - if you HATE straight to the point people, hopefully you know we’re not meant to live together.

What do I think I want:

Man

Probably someone who’s Aspie / somewhat on the autistic spectrum. I mean you have to take in at least the level of bluntness I’m expressing right now. Rationalist/EA in general is a good filter. Moral ambition is a great plus but not a hard requirement.

Empathetic

Doesn't drink or smoke, or does so rarely

Anywhere on Earth. I'm happy to move.

You’re probably a good fit if you think the following traits in a partner would be good for your life :

Very long, structured explainers on random topics

Somewhat impulsive curiosity

Romantic ambition, someone who’ll do slightly crazy things to add some magic in life

Enthusiasm for travel

Writes a lot

Experimenting with strong interpersonal presence and attunement

For either ethical or attractivity related reasons I will not date : Women (trans or cis) / Non-binary people / Trans men who didn’t transition